A Sad Change of Plans Plus Our Trips to Seattle and Dallas

Well, it has been a very crazy couple of weeks for our family…

On February 23rd we flew from Houston to Colorado Springs, CO for a one-week missionary debriefing/training. We were all very excited to go… Maddy was especially eager to play in the snow. Unfortunately, not even two hours after arriving I received a phone call from my mom letting me know my grandmother (Mamaw) had died unexpectedly. Sean immediately began making arrangements to get us back to Texas as quickly as possible. We were up at 4am the next morning on our way to the airport.

Maddy and a SnowmanMaddy did at least get to build a snowman!

I cannot express how hard it has been for our family. I was very close with my Mamaw for my entire life. I grew up living in the same small town as my grandparents and have MANY fond memories of time at their home. Even now, three weeks later, it still seems surreal that she is gone.

My family (specifically my grandpa) asked Sean to officiate the funeral service… it was very tough for him but he did a wonderful job. I know my family is very appreciative of him. And if he didn’t feel accepted before, he should now!

We all miss my Mamaw dearly. I want to say “thank you” to all of the people who prayed (and continue to pray) for us during this time, and for those who took time to send cards, emails and messages. We are extremely grateful to have so many people love on us.

Mamaw and Papaw with MaddyMy Papaw and Mamaw at Maddy’s 1st Birthday in Texas – 2009

Unfortunately we were not able to do the training in Colorado and we are now on a waiting list for possible cancellations. All of that is “up in the air” because after mid-April I will not be able to travel anymore.

Seattle

On February 28th we continued on with our travel plans and flew to Seattle, WA. It was the first time either of us had been to the Pacific Northwest! We had such a great time hanging out with our friends from ECC (Evangelical Chinese Church). They have sent teams to St. Kitts for two years in a row and it was finally our turn to visit them and meet people at the church. Sean shared at a youth group, preached in the main service on Sunday and we both shared at their Sunday School time. The church members are some of the friendliest people we have ever met!

And the food? They treated us to ALL KINDS of Asian food over our time there. Taiwanese, Korean, Chinese, Japanese… it was all so delicious! I think they have ruined Asian food for us now… nothing will taste the same after having the authentic stuff.

Hot PotHot Pot

Baby Octopus Hot PotBaby Octopus

We had a chance to check out some of the sights!

1899898_10152287496603665_1706924991_nThe Space Needle

Original StarbucksThe original Starbucks… and the sun was shining (the only time we were there)

Pike's Place MarketPike’s Place Market

The day before we left Seattle, we drove about 3 hours south to Portland and met with Nathan! He spent a month with us in 2012 helping us out with the ministry and 5 Day Clubs. He showed us all around the downtown area and some residential areas plus we ate at the famous Voodoo Donuts and Stumptown Coffee.

Dallas

We flew directly from Seattle to Dallas last Wednesday. We had a very restful time there with the Johnsons… a family that lived near Montgomery but moved a few years ago. They were so wonderful to us! Maddy felt like she was at her grandparent’s house! Maddy went ice skating and spent a day at the new Science Museum downtown. We had dinner with friends and supporters every night. Sean shared about St. Kitts and Turks & Caicos with a Sunday School class, plus we were able to have a few minutes during the main service. We hadn’t been to Dallas since just before moving to St. Kitts so it was awesome having the opportunity to update people with all that has happened!

Next on the Agenda

We are back in the Houston area now but we leave on Saturday for Spanish Fort, AL. We will be spending time with Sean’s family and meeting friends and supporters for a couple of weeks. Then we will spend one week in Missouri at CEF Headquarters, go back to Spanish Fort for a week and then we will be in Montgomery to stay. We are almost done with our traveling because in just one week I will be in my last trimester!

We would appreciate your continued prayers for my family, for us as we travel and for our little Riley-Grace as she grows the next three months!

Our Schedule For The Next Few Months

It’s kind of like a tour of America!

We get questions all the time about where we will be and when… and it gets really confusing when we try to explain it all. Most of our time is fairly set so here it goes:

(If you want to know just the basics then skip to the bottom of the page).

February

We will be in Texas until this Sunday. On Sunday we will fly from Houston to Colorado Springs, Colorado for a week-long missionary training school. It’s specifically for missionaries in between assignments so we are really looking forward to it!

Basically,

In Texas now

Colorado: Feb. 23 – Feb. 28

March

March is full with a trip to Seattle to visit ECC! They have come to St. Kitts on two mission trips and now we have the opportunity to visit them! We will also be in Dallas, back to Houston and then onto Spanish Fort, AL before leaving at the end of the month for CEF Headquarters in Missouri.

Basically,

Seattle: February 28th – March 5th

Dallas: March 5th – 9th

Houston: 9th – 16th (just for family)

Spanish Fort, AL: 16th through the 27th

April

In April we will be in Missouri (CEF Headquarters) for a week-long missionary refresher, we are going to the local CEF Banquet in Montgomery (just for the night) and back to Spanish Fort to continue visiting family and friends.

Finally on the 17th we will go back to Montgomery and we will be there until after Riley-Grace is born! We had to get all of our traveling done at once because at some point I won’t be able to anymore!

Breakdown for April

CEF Headquarters in Missouri: March 27th – April 6th

Montgomery for the Banquet: April 7th

Spanish Fort: April 8th – 17th

Montgomery: April 17th – ??? Sometime in June/July

June/July/August???

Riley-Grace is due on June 15th and we will be having her in Montgomery… where we would have been for two months already. We are only planning to stay in Montgomery for about 3 weeks or so after she is born. Afterwards we will be back in Spanish Fort with Sean’s family until it’s time for us to move to Turks & Caicos. Our goal is to move in July but it all depends on 1.) when Riley is born and 2.) our support level. We must have 100% of our support raised before we can move. Our “plan” is for Sean to head to Turks & Caicos two weeks before the rest of us come so he can get our house secured, our stuff moved in and our utilities ready to go.  Hopefully he will be able to do this in July when Riley is 6 weeks old and we would follow about two weeks later.

But depending on how our support is coming along that could stretch into August… but hopefully not much longer!

Either way, we will leave Montgomery 3 weeks after Riley is born and will only be back for doctor visits until we move to Turks and Caicos.

 

So there you have it! Our time until July/August is packed full! We are so excited to see everyone!

Full Breakdown

Now until February 23rd: In Texas

February 23rd – 28th: Colorado Springs, Colorado

February 28th – March 5th: Seattle

March 5th – 9th: Dallas

March 9th – 16th: Houston

March 16th – 27th: Spanish Fort, AL

March 27th – April 6th: Missouri (CEF Headquarters)

April 7th: Montgomery for the CEF Banquet

April 8th – 17th: Spanish Fort, AL

April 17th – Late June/Early July: Montgomery, AL

Late June/Early July – ???: Spanish Fort, AL until we move to Turks & Caicos

Back in St. Kitts!

We truly enjoyed our time spent in America seeing most of our family and friends. And just as it started getting a little cold we traveled back to St. Kitts! Although the circumstances for our extended stay were unfortunate and we were very busy seeing everyone, we were able to rest and relax the last two weeks in the States.

On our road trip down to Miami we stopped for the night in Orlando and did Disney on the cheap! Sean got a great deal on a hotel and the next day we spent the afternoon in Downtown Disney (which is free). That evening we took Maddy to a Cinderella character dinner at 1900 Park Fare Restaurant which is outside of the Magic Kingdom. That means, we didn’t have to pay for admission into the park… just the cost of our dinner! Maddy was in awe when she met Cinderella and she was one of two girls chosen to dance with her! It was such a wonderful way to spend one of our last evenings in America.

Posing with Cinderella

Our flight to St. Kitts was uneventful but it seemed like a whirlwind once we landed!

We left Maddy’s car seat at the airport and haven’t had a chance to get it back yet.

We got home and found one of the tires on our van was flat (which we drove home from the airport without knowing).

We met with our property manager about our alarm system because the upstairs neighbors where robbed while we were in the States… and they tried to break into our house as well.

The robbers cut the power off to our house so we were welcomed by quite a stench and mess from the fridge.

We had to go out that night for groceries and were reminded about the cost of food in St. Kitts.

We checked our mail on the way home and found two large power bills.

Not two minutes afterward I felt something on my arm and found a centipede halfway on me in the van! I yelled at Sean to pull over and I jumped out while the van was still moving! Thankfully it didn’t sting me and Sean was able to get it out of the van.

After putting the groceries away we discovered several extremely large wood roaches in our cabinets. (We have since had pest control out to spray).

This was all in the first few hours of being home!

Since then we’ve had a repairman out to fix our freezer which wasn’t turning on fast enough. It was causing everything to melt, re-freeze and melt again. The problem still isn’t fixed.

Our van broke down as Sean was literally pulling into the tire shop. The alternator went out and it will likely be days before we will have it back. But at least the tires are good!

I have thrush… which is weird.

The power has already gone out.

And ministry doesn’t stop just because we didn’t have internet for a few days or because we are stuck at our house.

I think the biggest adjustment is how unpredictable each day is here. We came back with plans because that’s what we do in America… we plan each day out. There may be a few interruptions but overall most of our days go according to plan and those interruptions can be handled easier in the States.

But here?

Each day truly is unpredictable. We make plans but it’s normal for plans to go out the window every day.

All in all, we are glad to be back… for life to return to normal (whatever that is), for ministry to start back up and to enjoy the cool breezes that will be gone before we know it.

Hanging our clothes out to dry

Trying to catch up on laundry

Palm Trees in St. Kitts

(The island is so beautiful)

This year is already looking to be busy… Sean will start working with the new National Coordinator in February, we may have a possible six mission trip teams, hopefully more after school Good News Clubs, we are praying for at least three local CYIA summer missionaries to serve, I am taking over the children’s program at our church and we will simply be preparing to leave by the end of the year.

Life is crazy… being a missionary here is certainly NOT a perpetual vacation even if our surroundings are so pretty. But we are glad to be serving the Lord here and know He will be with us every step of the way.

Our First Year as Missionaries in St. Kitts and Nevis

It’s so hard to believe almost one year has flown by since we moved to St. Kitts and Nevis! To say our lives have changed would be an understatement. The difference between our family one year ago and now has become even more apparent as we spent the last few weeks in America.

2012 has been a fun, exciting, frustrating and stressful ride.

Our Top Ten Highlights from 2012

1. The National Office

In June we were able to open up the first ever CEF National Office! This was especially exciting because opening an office was one of our “benchmark goals”.

the Tschetters and Donna (a board member)

Myron and Nita Tschetter (Caribbean Regional Directors) posing with one of our board members at the opening ceremony

2. Redland Baptist Church Mission Trip

Sometimes things go wrong… but God is sovereign. Nothing bad surprises Him. The group from Redland was our first mission trip we hosted. Even though they were robbed while sleeping their first night of ministry they persevered and reached hundreds of children that week! They were such an encouragement to us and their faith to keep pressing on despite such a horrible incident was inspiring.

Redland Baptist Church Mission Trip to St. Kitts and Nevis

The Redland group with kids at Beach Allen Primary School

3. We met new friends from Seattle!

The second mission trip team we hosted was a group from Evangelical Chinese Church in Seattle. We had never met them before but they were a huge blessing to us and the ministry in St. Kitts! They taught several 5 Day Clubs and helped repair a house for a recent widow with children. They even got to experience Tropical Storm Isaac while with us! We are so grateful they came to St. Kitts this year and we are really looking forward to developing the friendships we made with them.

Seattle Team Mission Trip in St. Kitts and Nevis

The Seattle Team posing at the “Look Out Point” over the southeast peninsula

4. Tropical Storms

Speaking of tropical storms… we experienced three this year. Tropical Storms Eduardo, Isaac and Rafael hit St. Kitts with Rafael being the worst by far. In October Tropical Storm Rafael brought rain for over a week straight to our tiny island. Everything seemed to be flooded and we were without power for a few days. But we were lucky. Many others were without power for much longer and some without water!

Tropical Storm Rafael Made a Direct Hit to St. Kitts and Nevis

Tropical Storm Rafael made a direct hit in St. Kitts and Nevis

5. Monkeys!

One of our favorite things about living in St. Kitts is seeing monkeys all the time! There is a group of around 15 monkeys that visit our yard several times a week. Maddy knows exactly what they sound like so when she hears them outside she yells, “Monkeys!!! Mommy, Daddy monkeys are outside!!” They like to eat the seeds from our palm trees, wrestle with each other and watch us. Sometimes they get a little too curious though… one tried to get in our house!

Monkeys in our Yard

The Monkeys pulling off seeds from our palm tree

6. Visitors from America

In June, Sean’s family came to visit us for a month! We were so excited to show them all about our life and do fun things like hike the volcano, snorkel, go sightseeing, try new foods and experience our power outages, internet outages, bills and cost of food. It’s hard to be away from everyone we know and love… we were so thankful to spend time with them.

The Miller Family in St. Kitts

Luke, Maddy, Heather, Micah and Brenda (Sean’s Mother)

We also got to spend a month with our intern Nathan! We had never met Nathan before he came to St. Kitts but he was a tremendous help to us over the summer. Without him, we could not have possibly taught as many 5 Day Clubs as we did. He is a great guy and was one of the easiest house guests we’ve ever had!

Nathan Teaching at a 5 Day Club in St. Kitts

Nathan teaching at a 5 Day Club

7. Sean Hitchhiking in Nevis

This was one of the most interesting church visits Sean has ever had! Maddy and I were getting over the flu so we stayed behind while Sean traveled to Nevis to preach at a church. Someone was supposed to pick him up at the port in Nevis, which a man kind of did. He met Sean and walked him to the road where he started hitchhiking! There was so much more to that afternoon. You’ll have to read Sean’s take on it.

8. Head Lice

In March we got on a ferry and went to visit a Good News Club in Nevis. We are fairly certain Maddy and I got lice from one of the Rastafarian men sitting next to us. Two weeks or so later I found the lice in Maddy’s head and Sean found them in mine. Yuck! It took us two more weeks to get rid of all the eggs. Luckily, we found a home remedy that helps keep lice away and so far we haven’t had it again!

On the Ferry to Nevis

This was taken on our infamous ferry ride to Nevis

9. Meet the King Distribution

In October amidst Tropical Storm Rafael, my ingrown toenails (which I ended up coming back to America to fix) and our friends the Graysons being gone, Sean was able to visit every single primary (elementary) school in St. Kitts. He taught a Bible lesson and handed out a Meet the King booklet to all of the kids! In one month we literally reached every primary aged child in all of St. Kitts!

Kids at William Conner Primary School in St. Kitts hear the Gospel and get a Meet the King Book

Kids at William Connor Primary heard the Gospel and received a Meet the King Booklet

10. Adjusting to a New Culture

The toughest and yet most interesting part of living in St. Kitts and Nevis is getting familiar to a new culture. There are no addresses, the power goes out at least once a week, the internet goes out, the water goes out, groceries are expensive, our power bill is 3 1/2 times what it would be in the States, “island time” is real, it’s not rude to answer your phone in the middle of a conversation (or while teaching a Bible lesson in Good News Club!), pig snout was given to Sean for lunch, medical care is limited, it’s hot, most places do not have air conditioning, we are the minority, everything is imported, Value Added Tax, they speak English but it’s still difficult to interpret their dialect at times, they really love paper work, cookies are called biscuits and we need to be ready for anything all the time! Even with the adjustments and difficulties, the island is beautiful, we love to snorkel and we have made wonderful friends!

Local Produce in St. Kitts and Nevis

Local produce: Orange Coconuts, custard apple, tomatoes, lettuce, broccoli, sour sop and green onions.

Maddy Getting Buried in the Sand at South Friars Beach in St. Kitts

Maddy and her friends getting buried in the sand at South Friars Beach

Maddy Riding Her Bike a Port Zante

Maddy riding her bike at Port Zante

"Pirate" Ship in St. Kitts

Beautiful St. Kitts sunset

This year was filled with so many ups and downs, changes and challenges. But we are blessed. The Lord is doing amazing things in St. Kitts. We have a national office, a wonderful national board, ministry taking place in all areas of the island and a National Director was recently approved! We’ve made friends with the people living in St. Kitts and with American Ross University students and faculty. We even get to share out time there with two other missionary families (The Graysons and Joneses) who we have grown very close to.

On January 10th we return to St. Kitts for another year of ministry. We are excited to see what the Lord will do in 2013!

Merry Christmas from the Millers!

This is the most different Christmas for our family because our home is 2000 miles away in the middle of the sea!

We are thoroughly enjoying our time in America and are excited to spend this Christmas with our family.

This year has been such a change for us… I know we will never be the same again. Sean, Maddy and I have been impacted for life. And on January 10th we will return to St. Kitts as missionaries for another year!

Here is a video we made recently… it’s basically 2012 in a nutshell.

Merry Christmas everyone! We truly appreciate your prayers, your giving and your friendship!

Missions Update Video December 2012 from Sean Miller on Vimeo.

You can donate a year end gift here.